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Introduction to My Romantic Love Letters
This collection of romantic love letters was written in 1999. They document my personal transformation as I journeyed to find myself through the search for my soulmate. They are examples of how to be authentic (genuine) in a relationship.
I can’t emphasize this enough, “The means are what determine the end and shape its eventual character.” -Ralph Blum
Do you want to find your soulmate? Are you wondering if maybe you already have? These love letters were written to a man I desperately wanted to be my soulmate with all of my heart, but he was only meant to come into my life for a season. What a harvest my self did realize though, in that Spring of awakening, a time of testing all that I believed myself to be.
I was determined to show him who I really was, whether he would accept me or not, trusting the guidance of my soul as it said to me, “never again deny your own heart.”
Even though I have grown and changed a thousand times over since writing these love letters, I keep them available to document my journey, so that they may serve as an example of how to go about being real in a relationship. These love letters are about being honest with the one you confess to love and not wearing any masks.
Telling the truth (like I did in these love letters) is not always easy, not when you are attached to the outcome of your fate with someone, but being authentic will always bring about the very best possible conclusion in any situation, if you can just find the courage to tell your heart’s truth at all times.
The practice of being CLEAR, as explained in these love letters, will eventually lead you to find your soulmate. It may take a lot of trying to get it right, but as long you are committed to being honest you will never have any reason for regret and will learn to have faith in yourself.
When you say what you think someone wants to hear, or what you think you need to say in order to achieve a specific outcome, you are not being true to yourself. Instead, you are tearing yourself in two (causing division between your head and heart). When you allow your head to rule your heart, you set yourself up for disappointment.
When approval from another is required for you to feel accepted, loved and worthy, you will say and do what you think will help you acquire it. When you see things as you would like them to be, instead of how they really are, you create an emotional prison for yourself and those around you and prolong your separation from your true soulmate. Find out more by reading my love letters.
READ: How to Find Your Soulmate, Self Love & Happiness
